Author: Jeanine Smith

“Let Go of Familiar—Your Growth Begins Where Comfort Ends”

Nobody really likes feeling uncomfortable. It’s awkward, scary, and let’s be honest—downright annoying. But guess what? Growth doesn’t happen where it’s cozy. Getting uncomfortable to grow means stepping out of what’s familiar so you can step into who God created you to be. I remember a time in my life when I had to make a huge decision that didn’t make sense to the people around me. I left behind a situation that felt safe but was keeping me small. It was uncomfortable, even painful at times, but it was the very thing that pushed me closer to my purpose and brought out strength I didn’t even know I had. God doesn’t call us to comfort zones; He calls us to grow. In fact, James 1:2-4 reminds us, “Consider it pure joy… whenever you face trials… because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.”

Still, most people stay stuck because of one sneaky thought: “What if I fail?” I’ve believed that lie before, too. It kept me in places that looked okay on the outside but were draining me on the inside. That kind of thinking holds you back from creating your life on purpose. You stop applying for new jobs. You avoid tough conversations. You keep hiding your dreams in the back of your mind. But avoiding discomfort means avoiding the growth that leads to peace, freedom, and real joy. You were made for more, not just for comfort.

Here’s one way you can start today: do one small thing that stretches you. Maybe that means saying “no” when you usually say “yes,” or trying something new that you’ve been scared to try. Write down what you feel, and ask God to show you what He’s growing in you through it. Getting uncomfortable to grow isn’t about doing big, wild things—it’s about showing up differently, one brave step at a time.

Getting uncomfortable is where your growth begins, and coaching helps you stay on that path when your mind wants to run back to what’s familiar. That’s exactly what the Confidence Mindset Program is here for—to walk with you as you push past fear, break through limiting beliefs, and start showing up as the person God created you to be. When you commit to this journey, you’re not just learning how to handle life—you’re learning how to thrive in it. Peace in every situation, confidence in every room, purpose in every step. Schedule your consultation call today and begin living the life you were made for—full of joy, clarity, and unstoppable confidence.

Thinking Higher: Shifting Your Mind to What Matters

Have you ever caught yourself stuck in a loop of thinking about everything you don’t have? It’s easy to focus on what’s missing—more money, better relationships, a different life. But when your mind stays in lack, your life follows. God calls us to think higher, to set our minds on His truth instead of our doubts. Philippians 4:8 reminds us, “Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” When you shift your focus to what God says instead of what you think you’re missing, you open the door to peace, confidence, and a life lived on purpose.

One of the biggest limiting beliefs that holds people back is the idea that “I’ll never have enough.” I know this struggle well. For years, I believed if I just had a little more—more success, more approval, more of whatever—I’d finally feel secure. But that kind of thinking kept me chasing instead of thriving. Higher thinking isn’t about ignoring reality; it’s about deciding to focus on what God is doing instead of what seems to be missing. When you believe that God provides, you stop striving and start walking in peace.

If you’re ready to break free from lack thinking and start thriving, it’s time to shift your mindset. A great way to do this is by writing down three things you’re grateful for each day—yes, even the small stuff. Gratitude rewires your brain to see what’s possible instead of what’s missing. And if you need support in making this shift, I’m here to help! Schedule a consultation call today to learn more about my Confidence Mindset Program, where you’ll gain the tools to think higher, thrive in life, and feel peace in every situation. It’s time to rise! 💫✨

Until Next Time Remember That Life Is But A Journey…

Stop Trying to Be a Clone—God Didn’t Use a Copy-Paste Button!

Being the right way to be means living as the person God created you to be, not as someone you think you should be. When you try to be someone else, you miss out on the amazing qualities that make you unique. Embracing your true self and practicing acceptance of self lets your inner light shine.

Too often, I believed I had to fit into a specific mold so others would like me. I struggled with this limiting belief, thinking that changing who I was would help me be accepted. This idea stopped me from really living life because it forced me to hide my true self instead of celebrating it. It’s a common thought that if you adjust your personality or hide parts of yourself, you’ll be accepted. But trying to fit into someone else’s idea of perfection only stops you from growing and being happy. Learning to love yourself exactly as you are makes life more fun and full of possibilities.

One thing you can start doing today is to jot down three things you love about yourself every morning. This practice helps you see the beauty in who you are and builds real confidence from within. If you’re ready to feel good in the skin you’re in and want more guidance, schedule a consultation call to work with me in the Confidence Mindset Program. Let’s unlock your true potential together!

Until Next Time Remember That Life Is But A Journey…

From Delulu to Doable: How to Drop Unrealistic Expectations and Actually Make Progress…

Ever felt like you should have your whole life figured out by now? Like, you should already have the dream career, perfect body, Pinterest-worthy home, and the ability to wake up at 5 AM for meditation, journaling, and a green smoothie—every single day? Yeah, that’s an unrealistic expectation. Unrealistic expectations trick us into believing we should be superhuman, and when reality doesn’t match up, we’re left feeling like we’ve failed. The problem isn’t you—it’s the impossible standards that leave you exhausted, frustrated and stuck in a cycle of disappointment.


One common belief that leads to setting unrealistic expectations is thinking, “If I just try harder, I can make everything perfect.” But perfection isn’t real, and trying harder won’t magically create an ideal life overnight. Instead, it creates stress, self-doubt, and burnout. The truth is, success (and happiness) comes from consistency, not perfection. So, what’s the solution? Start by setting realistic expectations. Break big goals into small, achievable steps, and celebrate progress instead of perfection. Life isn’t about getting everything right—it’s about growing and learning along the way.

Now, it’s time for a little self-reflection! Grab a journal and write about where you’ve been setting unrealistic expectations for yourself. What impossible standards have been holding you back? Once you’ve uncovered them, pick one small, doable step toward your goal—something simple, like dedicating 10 minutes to a new habit instead of an hour. The key is action, not overwhelm! Let go of the pressure and start embracing progress over perfection.

Until Next Time Remember That Life Is But A Journey…

4 Powerful Life Lessons from 2024

2024 was a year that taught me so much about life. I learned how important it is to take care of myself, stop comparing my life to others, and step out of my comfort zone. These lessons helped me grow, find peace, and move forward in a better way. Keep reading to see how they might help you too!




My Traveling Friends…

Moving into 2025, I’m sharing this reflection a little later than most. Why? Because sometimes, you need to pause, sit with your experiences, and let them guide you before you move forward. Taking time to self-reflect helped me uncover 4 powerful lessons from 2024 that changed how I approach life. These lessons reminded me that growth doesn’t happen when we rush—it happens when we take the time to truly look back, learn, and step forward with intention.



Here’s what 2024 taught me:

1. You can’t pour from an empty cup: Self-care isn’t just a nice idea; it’s non-negotiable. Taking time to recharge doesn’t make you selfish—it makes you stronger for yourself and everyone who depends on you.

2. Saying “no” is an act of self-love: Protecting your peace and energy isn’t mean; it’s necessary. Boundaries are healthy and essential.

3. Comparison is a trap: Your journey is unique. Wasting time looking at someone else’s path only distracts you from walking your own.

4. Growth happens outside your comfort zone: The scariest steps often lead to the most rewarding changes. Even small risks can open the door to big possibilities.

As I reflected on these lessons, one truth stood out: When you stop looking down in doubt and start looking up with hope, you can move forward and create the life you’ve always dreamed of. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being purposeful. Every decision, no matter how small, is a step toward the life you want to build.


So, as we move through 2025, I invite you to do the same. Take a moment to review your own lessons from last year. What did you learn about yourself? How can you use those insights to create a life you love—on purpose? Remember, every step forward matters.

Let’s grow together this year! If this post inspired you, subscribe to my website for more reflections and tips on creating your dream life. Share this with someone who needs a reminder that growth is always possible. And always know, I’m here to help you on your journey. Let’s make 2025 our most intentional year yet!

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The Secret Superpower: How Asking for Help Can Change Your Life…

Have you ever thought about asking for help but hesitated? Sometimes, asking for help can be a powerful way to make things better. People need to ask for help because it’s not always easy to solve problems on your own. When you ask for help, you can experience many benefits. First, you get different ideas and solutions that you might not think of by yourself. Second, asking for help can save you time and energy, you feel less stressed and more supported because you’re not facing challenges alone. Third, asking for help can lead to personal growth. When you seek assistance, you often receive new perspectives and feedback that can challenge your thinking and help you learn and develop new skills. This can boost your confidence and contribute to your overall personal and professional growth.

However, some people don’t ask for help because of limiting beliefs. One belief that people believe that stops them from asking for help is that asking for help makes them look weak or incapable. Another belief that people believe about asking for help that stops them from getting the support they need is that they might be bothering others or they seem like a burden to others. These thoughts can stop you from getting the support that you need.

If you don’t ask for help, it can hurt you in many ways. You might just find yourself stuck with problems longer or feel more stressed out. This can make it harder to enjoy life and reach your goals.

To start asking for help, try taking one small step. You could ask a friend or family member for advice on something you’re struggling with. This can help you get more comfortable with asking for help in other areas of your life.

Investing in yourself with personal development tools and materials, like the Confidence Mindset Program, can teach you how to move from choosing the struggle in silence to deciding to ask for help and build your confidence. It’s important to learn these skills so you can handle challenges better and live a more abundant and happier life.

Don’t wait another day! Take your life to the next level today. Schedule your consultation call now and let’s talk about how the Confidence Mindset Program can help you master the art of asking for help to make your life easier and more fulfilling.

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Until Next Time Remember That Life Is But a Journey

Escape the Desperation Trap: Find Your Confidence Today…

My Traveling Friends, there was a man named Jack who felt really desperate in his life. He had lost just lost his job, his family was struggling, and he didn’t have enough money topay the bills. Every day felt like a race against time, and he didn’t know how to make things better. He started to feel like there was no hope and no way out of his situations.

Guys, this story made be fiction, and yet for millions of individuals this is the story of their life. There are individuals out there that have just lost their jobs, struggling to make ends meet, going through a divorce, dating and so badly wanting to be married, etc… And they are allowing the feelings of desperation dictate their behaviors, which is creating and recreating a life that continues to feel hopeless.

Is this your story too? Have you ever felt like Jack? What did you do to try to fix it? Or maybe you didn’t have a clue where to start.

If you are reading this blog that means it found you and this information will be the start of you seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Let’s talk…

Being desperate means feeling like you need something so babdly that you’ll do almost anything to get it. It’s when you feel like you have no options left and you’re willing to take any chance to fix your problem. Being desperate in life maeans feeling trapped and hopless in different parts of your life. It can make you do things that aren’t good for you because you’re trying to solve your problems quickly. All in an effort to get out of the pain of desperation.

Let’s look at some examples:

  1. Career: Imagine you’re working really hard at your job, but you’re not getting the promotion you desire. You start feeling desperate. You just might quit your jobs without having another job lined up or you may start taking on too much work trying to impress your boss.
  2. Friendship Issues: If you’re feeling lonely, you might do anything to make friends. This could mean
  3. Money Problems: Imagine you really need money to pay for something important. You might take a job you don’t like or even think about borrowing money frompeople you shouldn’t, just to solve the problem fast.

One big belief that makes people act desperately is thinking, “I’m not good enough.” When you believe this, you feel like you have to prove yourself all the time, which can lead to making bad choice just to show that you’re worthy and to get approval from others.

Feeling desperate can make life really hard and it doesn’t have to be a part of your life forever. You can learn how to handle tough situations better and make smarter decisions by working with me inside the Confidence Mindset Program. The Confidence Mindset Program is a 1-on-1 coaching program that will cause you to challenge your belief systems that are holding you back and empower you with prinicples that will teach you how to control your emotions, believe in yourself, and find better solutions when life gets hard.

Ready to stop feeling desperate and startfeeling confident?

Don’t let desperation control your life. Schedule a consultation call for the Confidence Mindset Program – click the link http://www.lifeisbutajourney.com and start learning how to make better decisions and feel good about yourself. You deserve to feel confident and happy. Schedule your consultation today and start your journey to a better life…

Until Next Time Remember That Life Is But A Journey

Embracing Change: Understanding Transitional Seasons In Life

Have you ever felt stuck between what used to be and what is coming next?

Life is like the weather, always changing. Sometimes, these changing are small, like a sunny day turning into a rainy afternoon. Other times, they are big, like summer changing into winter. These big changes are what we call transitional seasons. A transitional season is a time in life when something big is changing. It could be something exciting or something scary. They are times when our familiar routines are interrupted, and we are pushed out of our comfort zones. During these times, everything can feel different, and it might be hard to know what to do next. Transitional seasons challenge our current identity and often force us to redefine our goals, values, and priorities.

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Breaking Free from Transactional Relationships: Embrace Genuine Connections

Have you ever felt that your relationships are more like transactions than true connections?

In the realm of human connections, transactional relationships are a common but often unspoken reality. At their core, these type of relationships are built soley on an exchange of goods , services, or benefits. It’s a “Give and Take” dynamic where each party involved in the relationship is primarily motivated by what they can gain from the other.

While this type of relationship may sound practical, especially in today’s fast pace society, it can often lead to a lack of genuine connection and emotional depth. And as human being we were created to love and be loved, not to be used and use others.

John 13:34 – A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.

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Forgiveness of Self: The Path to Healing and Growth

My Traveling Friends, forgiveness of self is one of the most powerful yet challenging journeys you will embark upon. It’s an act of courage, compassion, and deep inner work that will transform your lives. At least that is what I experience when I took the challenging journey of forgiving myself of the past hurt that I caused to myself. And it is for this reason that I want to explore why self-forgiveness is essential, what might hold us back, and how we can begin this transformative process.

I am curious, have you ever held onto guilt or regret for something you did in the past? How did it affect your daily life and your self-esteem? I ask these questions because I myself held onto guilt for something that Idiin the past and because of the guilt it was hard for memto hold my head up high, it was hard for me to see myself the way God sees me. And out of that guilt I did not make wise decision for my life. Forgiveness was to key to my freedom, and forgiveness is the key to your freedom too.

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